Sunday, February 20, 2011

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Sex Complicates Everthing!

When it comes to sex females and males have different views and opinions the majority of the time. Sex can become complicated for people in relationships and more so for people out of relationships. Sex is a part of life, so who wouldn’t want to participate? But emotionally men and woman definitely feel two different ways.

When two people are having sex just for the hell of it, they become friends with benefits and this can easily end in a horrible situation. I don’t have any experience in this field of so called “friends with benefits” but my girlfriends and I ALWAYS discuss this topic. In some cases, friends with benefits works, and there's never an issue. Although, the majority of the time, one of the partners is bound to develop extra feelings then they should have for the other partner. Most of the time it’s the female. This is natural because us females are a ball of emotions so we become attached very easily. While its less likely for the men (most of the time) to get attached easily. It’s very rare to hear a situation of a guy that wants more out of a "friends with benefits" relationship. If they're not dating, and he's getting sex, than thats usually where the relationship hits a standstill.  sex when not dating a woman. Even if there is a situation when the guys develops feelings they don’t have the balls to admit so they try to leave it alone.

But what happens if the tables are turned, what about the people in a relationship with horrible sex partners, but that same partner satisfies all you’re other needs?? Is sex everything?? Would u leave that person because they can’t perform well?? This can complicate things as well; sex is a part of life….and that’s why it’s hard to answer.

Peace.Love.HighHeels
Yours Truly
DwMoore
xoxoxox



2 comments:

  1. This is soo truee! it can be very complicated at times thats why it is easier to do it with the person you love..but on the other hand not everyone can find that special person!!! but i love itt DW =]

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  2. I feel like this is a very touchy topic. I think sex is very over rated. Theres way too much emphasis on it. And this is comin from some one who enjoys sex, alot. lol, friends with bennefits always end one of two ways. Both ppl catch feelings and it turns into a relationship.. or One person catches feelings and gets hurt. I feel like people need to evaluate there situations that they're in and really make the right decision based on there BRAIN no BODY. word

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